Connect First: 52 Simple Ways to Ignite Success, Meaning, and Joy at Work

  • 9h 57m 31s
  • Melanie A. Katzman
  • Recorded Books, Inc.
  • 2019

A renowned business psychologist, advisor, and consultant to the world's leading companies reveals the key to greater success, meaning, and joy at work

Technology has enabled us to be more interconnected today than ever before. So why do so many of us feel isolated and undervalued at work? Why does it feel like something is missing? It doesn't have to be this way. In these rapidly changing, challenging times, how do we - you - develop the intuition, self-awareness, and interpersonal agility required to prosper?

Here's what we've lost track of: organizations are run by people, and people run on emotions. Strong relationships are the bedrock of lasting success, meaning, and joy at work. In this life-changing guide, Dr. Melanie Katzman shows you an impactful approach to connect first as fellow humans, then as coworkers and colleagues, to forge the deep bonds that make a significant difference.

In this Audiobook

  • CHAPTER 1 SMILE: ACTIVATE IMMEDIATE CONNECTION
  • CHAPTER 2 SAY “PLEASE”: IT IMPLIES FREEDOM TO COMPLY (OR NOT)
  • CHAPTER 3 SAY “THANK YOU”: THE PEOPLE YOU NEGLECT CAN UNDERMINE YOUR SUCCESS
  • CHAPTER 4 CALL PEOPLE BY THEIR NAMES: IGNITE ATTENTION AND RECOGNIZE INDIVIDUALITY
  • CHAPTER 5 OFFER PRAISE: PRIDE IS ROCKET FUEL
  • CHAPTER 6 GOT IT? THEN SAY SO!: HELP COWORKERS MANAGE THEIR TIME
  • CHAPTER 7 PROVIDE FEEDBACK: IT BENEFITS EVERYONE
  • CHAPTER 8 SEE EVERYBODY: THOSE ON THE MARGINS OFTEN HAVE GREATER PERSPECTIVE
  • CHAPTER 9 LISTEN TO INSPIRE: DEEPEN THE CONVERSATION BY RESPONDING WITHOUT WORDS
  • CHAPTER 10 SILENCE: BE QUIET TOGETHER
  • CHAPTER 11 TOUCH: IT TRANSFORMS AN INTERACTION
  • CHAPTER 12 EAT TOGETHER: FOOD IS BAIT FOR CONVERSATION AND CREATES CONNECTION
  • CHAPTER 13 BE PRESENT: SHOWING UP IS JUST THE START
  • CHAPTER 14 SHARE INFORMATION: NEWS IS A VIRTUAL VALIUM
  • CHAPTER 15 BE A MAGNET: BECOME THE PERSON PEOPLE WANT TO BE WITH
  • CHAPTER 16 KNOW HOW TO ENTER: FIRST IMPRESSIONS STICK
  • CHAPTER 17 TELL STORIES: CONNECT BY HACKING YOUR COLLEAGUES' RIGHT BRAINS
  • CHAPTER 18 DON'T JUST DO SOMETHING, SIT THERE!: LUXURIATE IN NOT HAVING AN IMMEDIATE SOLUTION
  • CHAPTER 19 CHALLENGE NEGATIVE THINKING: STOP NOISE POLLUTION
  • CHAPTER 20 HAVE A POINT OF VIEW: CULTIVATE AN INFORMED PERSPECTIVE
  • CHAPTER 21 YOU DON'T ALWAYS HAVE TO BE RIGHT: TRUST ME ON THIS, I'M NOT WRONG
  • CHAPTER 22 ENSURE ROLE CLARITY: PROVIDE THE CONTEXT AND PERMISSION
  • CHAPTER 23 CONNECT JOBS TO THE LARGER MISSION: THERE'S ALWAYS A WHY
  • CHAPTER 24 OFFER THE GIFT OF TIME: WE ALL HAVE TOO MUCH TO DO
  • CHAPTER 25 KNOW WHEN YOU ARE DONE: CLEAR GOALS ENABLE YOU TO DECLARE “FINISHED”
  • CHAPTER 26 THERE'S PLENTY FOR EVERYONE!: ASSUME AN ABUNDANCE—NOT SCARCITY—MENTALITY
  • CHAPTER 27 BANK SOCIAL COLLATERAL: GIVE NOW TO SUCCEED IN THE FUTURE
  • CHAPTER 28 STROKE THEIR NARCISSISM: ALL EGOS NEED A LITTLE LOVE
  • CHAPTER 29 CREATE RITUALS: CELEBRATE SUCCESS AND GROW FROM MISTAKES
  • CHAPTER 30 GENERATE JOY AND LAUGHTER: ENERGIZE YOUR WORKPLACE
  • CHAPTER 31 STAND IN SOMEONE ELSE'S SHOES: EXPERIENCE THEIR POINT OF VIEW
  • CHAPTER 32 DECODE YOUR COLLEAGUES' EMOTIONAL CLUES: THEY'RE THE KEY TO CONNECTION AND SUCCESS
  • CHAPTER 33 APOLOGIZE: DON'T JUSTIFY OR EXPLAIN WHY
  • CHAPTER 34 ACCEPT THAT YOU WON'T BE UNDERSTOOD: SOMETIMES THE SYSTEM ISN'T READY FOR YOUR IDEAS
  • CHAPTER 35 NEGOTIATE A PSYCHOLOGICAL CONTRACT: MUTUALLY COMMIT TO EXTREME HONESTY
  • CHAPTER 36 ADVOCATE FOR YOURSELF: THE DISCOMFORT WILL BE WORTH IT
  • CHAPTER 37 NAME THE ELEPHANT: IT'S TAKING UP WAY TOO MUCH ROOM
  • CHAPTER 38 BE A SIMPLIFIER, NOT A COMPLICATOR: MAKE PRECISION EXECUTION SEEM EASY
  • CHAPTER 39 STEP OUTSIDE YOUR COMFORT ZONE: BEING A LITTLE TERRIFIED IS GOOD FOR YOU
  • CHAPTER 40 INVITE OTHERS IN: TAKE THE FIRST STEP
  • CHAPTER 41 BE A GRACIOUS HOST: TACKLING THE HARD STUFF IS EASIER WHEN EVERYONE IS COMFORTABLE
  • CHAPTER 42 BE A PERSON FIRST!: HELP STRANGERS FEEL LESS STRANGE
  • CHAPTER 43 FOCUS ON FACILITATION: BOOST THE QUALITY OF CONVERSATIONS BY ATTENDING TO DETAILS
  • CHAPTER 44 BUILD A BRIDGE: CONNECT THROUGH NONWORK INTERESTS AND EXPERIENCES
  • CHAPTER 45 CREATE THE GROUP YOU WANT TO BE PART OF: THERE'S ENERGY AND POWER IN NUMBERS
  • CHAPTER 46 BE PRACTICALLY OPTIMISTIC: INSTILL HOPE
  • CHAPTER 47 EXPLORE THE UNKNOWN: THE FUTURE DEPENDS ON IT
  • CHAPTER 48 HONOR HISTORY: LET THE PAST PROPEL YOU FORWARD
  • CHAPTER 49 EMBRACE AGING AT WORK: 60 IS THE NEW 30
  • CHAPTER 50 LEVERAGE YOUR PLATFORM: MAKE A DIFFERENCE
  • CHAPTER 51 CHALLENGE THE STATUS QUO: UNLEASH INTERGENERATIONAL ENERGY
  • CHAPTER 52 DREAM AUDACIOUSLY: MOVE BEYOND SUCCESS TO SIGNIFICANCE
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