Get Over 'I Got It': How to Stop Playing Superwoman, Get Support, and Remember that Having It All Doesn't Mean Doing It All Alone

  • 5h 57m 8s
  • Elayne Fluker
  • HarperCollins Leadership
  • 2021

A strong support network and meaningful connections are crucial to your long-term success and peace of mind.

Although successful women excel in every way, many resist the idea of seeking help due to fear of being viewed as weak or incompetent. Instead, they struggle alone and sacrifice their happiness and peace along the way. If you feel this way, you’re in the right place!

In Get Over “I Got It,” author and podcast host Elayne Fluker shows you that this isolated mindset is the reason you are overwhelmed, depressed, and even unfulfilled. With Elayne’s help, you will learn:

  • How to step outside your comfort zone to ask for and accept support.
  • The importance of ditching the “do-it-alone” philosophy.
  • How to build your network and make useful connections.
  • Ways for you to embrace the proven benefits of a stronger-together approach.

Get Over "I Got It" will help you overcome the hurdles you face that prevent you from asking for help, giving you a surefire strategy—and the confidence—to seek support. You’ll be positioned to establish a solid network of support and enroll others in your vision to achieve success.

About the Author

Elayne Fluker is host of the Support is Sexy podcast, which has more than 800,000 downloads and counting, and features her interviews with more than 500 diverse and inspiring women entrepreneurs. Elayne is also the Founder of SiS.Academy—an online learning platform educating and empowering Black Women entrepreneurs. In 2020, she was named a "Founder of Change" for SiS.Academy as part of the American Express "100 for 100" program, featuring 100 innovative Black women entrepreneurs. As a trusted coach and consultant who unleashes the high potential in women around the world, Elayne helps her clients shift their mindset around support so they can move to their next level. She has led more than 200 workshops globally in Spain, Morocco, South Africa, and the U.S. She has shared her expertise at Hewlett-Packard, New York University, Columbia University, Howard University, Spelman College, and the United Nations, and she has appeared on CNN, the Today show, Nightline, Inside Edition, Extra, BET, HLN, and Satellite XM Radio, as well as numerous podcasts sharing her message of support for women.

In this Audiobook

  • Introduction
  • Chapter 1 - Define What "Having It All" Means to You
  • Chapter 2 - Get Over "I Got It!" Syndrome
  • Chapter 3 - Tap Into Your Feminine Energy
  • Chapter 4 - Retire Your Cape
  • Chapter 5 - Fall Back
  • Chapter 6 - Stop Being "The Strong One"
  • Chapter 7 - Live the Question
  • Chapter 8 - Learn the Language of the Ask
  • Chapter 9 - Remove Your Mask
  • Chapter 10 - Reinvent with Support
  • Chapter 11 - Build Your Love Club
  • Chapter 12 - Know Your Anchors from Your Engines
  • Chapter 13 - Seek Wise Counsel
  • Chapter 14 - View Feedback as a Gift
  • Chapter 15 - Show Up for Yourself
  • Chapter 16 - Let People Show Up for You
  • Chapter 17 - Embrace a Little Grace
  • Chapter 18 - Adopt a Possibility Mindset
  • Chapter 19 - Be a Possibility Partner
  • Chapter 20 - Give Responsibly
  • Chapter 21 - Know That It's Bigger Than You